Do You Know How to Clap Back?

Have you ever experienced someone trying to make you be a victim in life? A person who tries to make you the problem of their life problems? They do this by blaming you for everything that goes wrong in their life. In this process they try to isolate you from escaping them by making you feel weak and trapped under their control?

If you ever find yourself in this position, it’s important to clap back.

What does it mean to clap back?

To clap back is to push back onto others what they are trying to push onto you. To clap back means to stand up for yourself. To clap back means letting go of whatever ugly feeling someone is trying to place onto you. It’s anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. It’s anything that makes you feel small. It’s anything that makes you want to run or hide. Most importantly, it’s anything that makes you feel you have done something wrong when you haven’t. This is where the saying, “It’s not you, it’s them,” should be used.

You shouldn’t be a victim to life. You are meant to be healthy, free, abundant, happy and joyful.

There are difficult moments in life. Difficult moments are just that, “moments.” They’re not supposed to last forever. You are not defined by what has attacked you in life. You are defined by how you get back up and keep going. Playing the victim in life will get you victimized and this cycle will repeat. How is this cycle repeated? What comes with playing the victim is that you become a victimizer too.

When playing victim, you create victims everywhere you go, in everything you do. This affects everything you come in contact with people, animals and materialistic items, too. Everyone on earth who has ever lived has experienced being a victim to numerous attacks of victimized behaviour. 

The victimizer or “bully” as is most popular to call someone who harms another is just another wounded victim spreading the disease of victimhood. To stop this ugly, repeated, defeating cycle of self-perpetrated abuse is to clap back.

Clapping back is not falling into the trap of being or becoming a victim, anymore. You have the strength and power within you to do this because magick gives you unlimited energy to fight any battle you encounter in your day to day life. Clapping back is asking magick for help. Ask magick to send back what’s being done to you, to those who are trying to victimize you. You won’t need to list names because magick already knows who is trying to destroy your life. All you need to do is acknowledge that you are not the problem when another is attempting to victimize you.

WARNING: If you’re the bully in a situation and you are asking magick to clap back on another, it won’t work in your favour. You cannot fool magick into doing any dirty work for you. Trying to do so will cause everything to backfire on you. Judgment will befall upon you when you least expect. Most people refer to this type of returned energy or experience as karma. In the world of magick, it’s known as justice.

Once you’ve established your intent on clapping back and are justified in doing so, you’ll need to understand how clapping back works.

Below are two examples of how clapping back works. The first will be an example in the physical form and the second will be an example of how clapping back works in the spiritual form, also the way magick works.

1. When a teacher claps their hands to gain control of a noisy classroom, they begin with gentle claps. Those who notice quickly understand what’s happening and join in. As more children participate in the clapping, the room suddenly changes from chaos into a rhythmic sound of synchronistic claps. The children who were once “out of control” are now quiet and focused on the teacher.

2. When you clap back in the spiritual form, you are mentally asking magick to send back all that has been sent to destroy you. The moment you ask for help, is the moment you have reversed all that has been sent your way. That’s it. It truly is this simple. You do not need to know how this process works. This is why magick is magickal. It is not for you to understand, only for you to believe that magick is real. The moment you ask magick for help is the moment you are set free.

Now if the bully returns and tries again, you are more equipped to deal with them. Fight the battle, in silence with magick at your side until the attacks disappear. Magick will guide you in what actions or inactions to take. Follow your instructions. They are your instincts. The more you trust in yourself, the more you’ll see magick working in your life.

You have the strength of magick at your service for everything you need in life. Magick will forever strengthen you. You have access to an endless supply and it comes from within you. In any battle or battles you face, you should know your attacker will eventually give up because as long as you continue to stand back up and keep going, nothing and no one will ever be able to stop you.

When you recognize magick is real and is a tool in your life to help you, you will know you are protected from all types of harm. You may not believe this at first. Most people need to experience the “miracles” and “lucky” moments in their life before they recognize that there is an unseen force that is guiding and protecting them from harm.

Equipped with the knowledge of knowing how to clap back, you should  never do it in a loud setting. Meaning, you shouldn’t tell anyone what you are doing. The moment you speak about clapping back, you become boastful and your ego takes over. Magick won’t help you when your ego is in-charge. FYI: the ego is that big-headed feeling of thinking you’re more powerful than anything on earth. To remain humble, you must stay quiet in your approach to clapping back. *Keep it between you and magick.

Remaining humble doesn’t mean you can’t express yourself when someone is trying to make you a victim. It’s perfectly natural to be pissed off or hurt when someone is attacking you. How you react to someone doing their best to victimize you can be measured on different levels. The most intense response is getting angry and acting on this anger. It’s natural to want to defend yourself. It is perfectly natural to want to tell others what is happening or what has happened to you as well. Especially if the attacker is trying to isolate you. Be sure to tell any authority what is happening, so someone else is aware of what is going on.

Sadly, some people (even those in authority roles) that you tell who are supposed to comfort and support you - won’t. This reaction can hurt more than being victimized, as it makes you feel unseen and may make you feel a little “crazy” for having no one care or no one to believe you. This is why you need to develop a close relationship with magick, for magick will always be there to support you. Not all friends are friends and not all family is family. However, magick is always magickal and magick is 100% always going to support you.

Experiencing “victimization” feels ugly and no one likes to feel ugly. It’s almost the same feeling as when someone “creeps” you out. It feels like a violation of your privacy. The person is attempting to cover you with their essence when you didn’t “ask” for it. The reality of life is, people treat people how they view themselves.

If you respect yourself, it’s highly unlikely you will disrespect anyone else. So when someone tries to step over your boundary line and cross it without your permission, you’re going to feel uncomfortable and pissed off, too.

If you see yourself as a good-hearted person who doesn’t wish harm upon anyone, it may feel uncomfortable to want to clap back at another. If you understand, “hurt people hurt people,” you might feel sorry for the person who is hurting you. This is especially difficult to do when it's someone close to you that you love.

However, if you don’t clap back then the person who is hurting won’t ever learn that they’re doing something wrong. They will repeat the cycle of abuse, unknowingly. By not clapping back, you’re actually enabling the person to continue their destructive behaviour.

Let magick be the judge and allow magick be the justice. Magick knows how to handle every heart on earth. Magick is not human. Magick doesn’t hold the hatred that human hearts have endured. Magick is gentle, magick is kind, and magick is loving even in the way magick handles judgment and justice.

Imagine if everyone on earth turned to magick to manage their discomforts in life? Imagine people remembering how magickal they are? People wouldn’t be focused on harming others and in-turn themselves for they would be focused on enjoying life, as life is meant to be enjoyed. You are magickal and this world you walk upon holds magick. 

Magick says, “Go ahead. It’s okay. You have the permission and authority to clap back.”